The No More List

No more comparing myself to others - I live by the means of my own passion and power and unique offerings. No more forcing (fast) solutions - I delight in slow deliberate growth. No more waiting to fill my tank until it’s empty - Keep my cup full and overflowing so I can pour into … Continue reading The No More List

The Art of Introduction + 5 Ways to Make a Good First Impression

My friend Summer wrote to me… Why are introductions and first impressions so important? What is the art of the introduction? What is too little/too much? Too intimate/too general? What are the values and atmosphere we want to convey to someone at the very beginning? And could a good intro help us to personally clarify … Continue reading The Art of Introduction + 5 Ways to Make a Good First Impression

Giving is giving. And I made this for you!

Hi! I made this virtual present for you... Its a list of some of my most favorite things, tools, resources, and inspiration from this year. If you feel the urge to share some of yours, I’m so down for that. We could create a new favorite things tradition! We could change each other’s lives!  So … Continue reading Giving is giving. And I made this for you!

And now, move.

Sometimes I wish I were different already.That I could untie the knots in my mind, on demand.Make my limbs reach more readily for the love that I crave. But there’s this ravine it seems, between me and the creature I wish to be.There’s some big long journey  involved? ...Or is there?Is that just an excuse, … Continue reading And now, move.

side streets and manifestations

May we walk steady as we go Full of wonder and compassion as we grow Listening only to the surest smallest voice Running our fingers intuitively through every possible choice.. May we find our spirits the lanterns in the dark Where there is dampness may we remain the spark May we pull our sleeves over … Continue reading side streets and manifestations

5 Ways to End an Argument

We all know those people that just love to argue, love to get heated and "get their feelings hurt".  I might sound insensitive, but no! The insensitive thing would be to ignore that these people exist and that their feelings matter.  First of all, if you find yourself in a situation with this sort of … Continue reading 5 Ways to End an Argument